Why Do We Feel Stuck?
Childhood
A wonderful time in the life of all of us. Everyone was happy this time. Used to fight only for three things: playing, eating, and sleeping. There were many failures, like falling off the cycle while learning to cycle, but still, we did not stop. Fell and got up again and did not stop until we learned to ride a bicycle.
It is not known how quickly the days passed. When was the first day of school and when the last day also ended, we didn’t understand. In those days we all lived a lot, had a lot of fun, studied a lot, even failed but never stopped.
Know why we used to be happy in childhood? Because we used to think only about the present, neither about the past nor about the future. Used to enjoy that time, used to live every day, used to live in the present.
Think
But what happened now? Why do we feel stuck now? We were the same people who were happy, but as we went ahead in life, many people stopped. Time is moving forward, but why are they not moving forward with time?
Now, I want you to close your eyes and think about the things that are stopping you from moving forward. Only you know about those things. Then write them down on paper. All of those things will be bad, as no good memories hurt a person, but only bad memories cause people to stop and lose sight of their goals.
Someone may have been hurt, someone may have failed, financial situation and many more difficulties come in a person’s life
Many thoughts run through the mind, good and bad. If we have so many thoughts, then we will remain restless. After writing all these things on paper, you will have a clear view in front of you. Because you will understand that these are all the things that are stopping me, because of these things I have lost in my life.
Now there are only those things in front of you that are hurting you. You have been thinking about them for some time now, this time also you have to think about them, but this time you think this —
All this has happened in my past. Whether I think or not, my past will not change. Is all this really happening? Or am I just repeating those moments by thinking again and again? I am recreating my bad yesterday. And because of this, I am feeling stuck. And that’s what’s stopping me from moving forward in my life.
Control Thoughts in the Mind
It means that the fault is only yours because you are giving yourself pain by thinking about those things. You can control the thoughts coming into your mind. Whether to think good or bad is in your hands. Now you have to live life with negative thoughts or with positive thoughts. The choice is yours…
Do not let your mind control you, you control your mind because you are the boss.
Do you want bad to happen to you? No right. So you have to accept what has happened to you because the more you think about those things, the heavier it will be.
“A psychologist raised a glass of water and asked “How heavy is this glass of water? She replied, “Weight doesn’t matter. The weight doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” “The stress and worries in life are like that glass of water.
Enlarge your inner world, leave the bad memories far away in your mind. Think about the things because of which you are blessed. Prepare for what is coming, remember wait was never a punishment but a preparation for a better tomorrow.
& believe me, whatever happens, there is a reason behind it
Every person finds his troubles very big, but you have no idea what other people are going through. Still, they keep on moving forward. And let me tell you one thing: you are not alone in whatever has happened or is happening to you. All this has happened or is happening with everyone in this world. The only difference is that some people stayed the same, and some fought with their problems and moved ahead in life.
Because life is short, when we have grown up so much since childhood, we don’t know and probably will not understand when the last day of life will come. So remove this burden of bad memories and keep moving forward with good memories. Fulfill your dream. Take care of yourself because you are the person who is going to be with you forever.
Time doesn’t stop for anyone, you have to keep moving forward with the times.
Positive thinking, words, and action are the only keys to success. Don’t stop till you reach your destination.
I pray that whatever difficulties have come in your life; you get the strength to fight them, and soon you will get your destination...
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